Ready for a Crazy Lessons Quiz?
Let’s get honest…
If love were simple, we wouldn’t keep ending up in the same situations with different faces.
But we do. Because relationships might be complicated, but our behavior is predictable.
We fall for charm when we want excitement.
We choose ambition when we want stability.
We chase intensity when we’re afraid of something real.
And sometimes? We overlook the person who might actually be right for us.
In Crazy Lessons in Love, my heroine, Jules, takes a bold (and slightly crazy) step—she interviews five ex-boyfriends to figure out what went wrong, and then she shares her lessons with the world! She creates a podcast called “Crazy Lessons in Love.”
With a nickname associated with each ex, it’s easy to see that each one represents a different kind of love:
- The Player
- The Workaholic
- The Bad Boy
- The Ghost
- The Safe One
What does this have to do with you? You might be asking yourself that right about now. But here’s the twist…
Most of us aren’t just dating these types—we are them.
So, let’s find out: Which Ex Are You?
The Crazy Lessons Quiz (No Cheating)
Instructions:
Choose the answer that feels most instinctive. Don’t overthink it—that’s how we lie to ourselves rather than facing those hard truths.
When you meet someone new, what draws you in first?
A.Chemistry you can’t ignore
B. Their ambition and success
C. Their edge—the sense they’re not easy
D. The mystery… you can’t quite read them
E. How comfortable and easy it feels
What keeps your interest over time?
A. The thrill of being wanted
B. Respect and shared goals
C. Emotional intensity
D. Space and independence
E. Trust and consistency
Be honest—what’s your biggest dating pattern?
A. I lose interest once it’s secure
B. I prioritize everything else first
C. I create push-pull dynamics
D. I disappear when it gets real
E. I stay too long, hoping it works
Your friends would say you:
A. Love attention and know how to get it
B. Are driven, maybe a little unavailable
C. Are intense but guarded
D. Are hard to pin down
E. Are loyal—to a fault
When someone really likes you, you:
A. Enjoy it… until it feels predictable
B. Feel pressure you don’t have time for
C. Question their motives
D. Pull back a little
E. Wonder if they’ll change their mind
Your relationship fear (the one you don’t say out loud):
A. Missing out on something better
B. Losing control of your life
C. Being truly seen
D. Getting hurt and not recovering
E. Not being chosen in the end
Your ideal partner is someone who:
A. Keeps you on your toes
B. Matches your ambition
C. Breaks through your walls
D. Doesn’t demand too much
E. Feels like home
Your Results—Where Things Get Real
Mostly A’s — The Player
You’re captivating. People are drawn to you effortlessly.
But here’s the truth: you love the beginning of love more than the middle. The chase is intoxicating. Stability? Less so.
You’re not heartless—you’re just always scanning for something more.
Growth edge:
Can you stay when it’s no longer new?
Mostly B’s — The Workaholic
You build a life you’re proud of—and it shows.
But relationships require time, presence, and vulnerability… three things that don’t always fit neatly into your schedule.
You don’t avoid love—you just don’t always make room for it.
Growth edge:
Success means more when someone gets to share it with you.
Mostly C’s — The Bad Boy (or Girl)
You don’t do shallow. You don’t do easy.
Your relationships are powerful, consuming, unforgettable—and sometimes exhausting.
You want connection, but vulnerability feels like exposure.
Growth edge:
Love shouldn’t feel like a battlefield you have to win.
Mostly D’s — The Ghost
You’re not careless—you’re cautious.
When things start to matter, you step back. Not because you don’t feel… but because you feel too much.
So you leave before it can fall apart.
Growth edge:
Closure isn’t just for them—it’s for you too.
Mostly E’s — The Safe One
You are the one people should choose.
You show up. You stay. You build something real.
But sometimes, you get overlooked for something flashier… louder… less lasting.
And that can hurt.
Growth edge:
Don’t settle for being someone’s “easy choice.” Be their intentional one.
The Truth About Love Patterns
Here’s what Jules learns in Crazy Lessons in Love: we don’t just date patterns—we repeat them… until we’re ready not to.
Sometimes the biggest risk isn’t choosing the wrong person. It’s finally choosing the right one. Want to learn more about Jules’ journey? Crazy Lessons in Love available for preorder now, and for sale in only one week!
Sometimes the craziest dare is the one that leads you home.
When her sister’s best friends, the Crazy Eights, dare her to confront her romantic past, Julianna Friedman laughs it off—until she realizes the joke’s on her.
With the internet watching her every move, Jules visits five ex-boyfriends. That’s five chances to figure out why she keeps falling for the wrong men. From the smooth-talking player to the bad boy she almost can’t resist, every interview is a master class in heartbreak. But it’s the one man she hurt the most—the safe, steady love she walked away from who haunts her
Chance encounters keep throwing them together, each one unearthing old feelings she swore she’d buried. As her “Crazy Lessons in Love” podcast takes off, Jules begins to wonder: Was the lesson really about love… or about finding the courage to risk it again?
Heartfelt, witty, and filled with the kind of chemistry that never dies, Crazy Lessons in Love is a story about facing the past, forgiving yourself, and realizing the right man was the one who never stopped believing in you
Tell Me Yours and I’ll Tell You Mine
Drop your result in the comments or send them to me if you want them kept secret. And be honest…
Which one are you? And which one do you keep falling for?
The safe one 🫣